Letters from Friends

These are emails we have recieved from many people. They will be included in a tribute page that will contain everything I have so far and every thought I have of him. The support from everyone we have recieved has been a great blessing. If at anytime a sense unease from us in any way, does not reflect back upon you. Most know this, I basically remind everyone for my own sense. When emotions start to sink we tend to clamor up. Thank you to everyone. I will be listing a page with everyone that has been in contact with us, or given gifts to Kyle of any type or time. There are so many of you and I wish upon you the gratitude and warmth you have given us.

I am just overcome with grief for you and your family. I really can't imagine what you are going through. I am so very sorry. Let us at CMS know if you need anything - anything at all. Don't hesitate to ask.
Take strength from your family and friends.
Janet

Words cannot express how I feel this afternoon after reading that your little Kyle could no longer fight the tough battle he had. I can't imagine the grief and pain you are feeling at this time. You will continue to be in my prayers as you go through the coming hours, days, weeks and adjust to not having your little boy with you. Please know both Ken and I are thinking of you and your family. Elouise Johnson

I just read that Kyle has become a little angel in heaven. My heart breaks for the both of you and your families. You were cheated out of your hopes and dreams for that sweet little boy. I want both of you to know that I am here and that I understand. We too lost our daughter 5 years ago and though the pain does lessen there will forever be a void in our hearts. This will be a rough time so be patient with yourselves and each other. Don't let anyone dictate your pain or your grief, everyone grieves differently and there is no right or wrong way. I know you are in a fog right now, I remember so clearly being in that fog. I still think that since I have been where you are that I should have some great words of wisdom or some magic words and all I can say is how sorry I am. I never want to see anyone go through that pain. It breaks my heart to know where you are. I can however offer an ear, I know that I searched out people to talk to who understood what I was feeling and what I was going through. I also told our story to who ever would listen because I needed to tell it over an over. Parents love to share stories about what their child has done or hasn't done, it is no different for those of us who lost our children at birth or shortly after and it is the only story we have to tell. I just wanted people to know about Emmerson and I am sure you feel the same way about Kyle. John and I did join a support group and we met 4 couples who we still spend time with. We were all so greatful to have each other, because even though our families and friends were supportive none of them knew what we were going through.Please feel free to call me 952-469-1508 or at work or email me at work or home ehauschildt@charter.net, I would like to help any way I can. A Butterfly lights beside us like a sunbeam. And for a brief moment its glory and beauty belong to our world. But then it flies again, and though we wish it could of stayed, we felt so lucky to have seen it. ~unknownThis quote was given to me by my sister when Emmerson died. I wish with all my heart that Emmerson could be with us today and I know you wish the same about Kyle. I also can say now that I feel so lucky to have had her and I know that she is my guardian angel in heaven and some day we will meet again.With my deepest sympathy for the loss of your sweet little boy Kyle James,
Erika Hauschildt

I will continue to keep you in my prayers. Please know that I will always
keep Kyle in our hearts and prayers.
Sincerely
Aimee Stearns

We are so sorry. Our prayers will be with you.
The Camacho Family

There are no words that can express how sorry we are. Kyle will always hold a very special place in our hearts. We will always love him.
Sean and I will be coming to his funeral.
If you need to talk, I don't care what time it is....or if you don't want to talk but just need someone to be there please please let us know.

We love you,
Sean, Missy, Taylor, Alec and Ethan

I found your website from a friend at Fertile Thoughts. I just wanted to send my deepest sympathy to you and your family. You seem like such loving, wonderful people. You will truly have an angel watching over your family. I hope you find a way to heal. I hope you are able to see life through the eyes of your daughter again.My family sends your family deepest condolences.-Beth, Brett and Rachel

There are no words to say how sorry we are. Kyle is at peace and he knows you love him. Take comfort in each other. All of your friends will be here when you need us.

Love
Christine & Pat

I am so sorry for your loss and my heart and prayers go out to you and your family. I can't thank you enough for putting together this website and keeping everyone informed on Kyle's short journey in this life. He touched me and I loved him.
Suzie Glodek

Oh my goodness, I'm so terribly sorry for your loss. I'll continue to pray for comfort and healing, for your family.
~Melanie Frazier

I know you don't know me. I've been reading your site through a third party association. When my son was in the NICU I remember how hard it was to be out in public and feel like the world had no idea what we were going through. Well, I don't know what it is like to lose a child. It's the worst thing we can go through as human beings. But I do want you to know that many of us out here are crying out for your family. We were touched by Kyle's brave brief life, and we are grieving for you. Kyle had a purpose and I pray that you will be comforted throughout your life, until you hold him again for eternity.
Erin

I don't know you personally but I have kept up on Kyle's story through your friend Rose and the website. I just wanted to let you know that Kyle was and continues to be in my thoughts and prayers. He was such a beautiful little boy who has touched my heart and even though he wasn't here long has left an imprint on my soul.
My thoughts and prayers will continue to be with you and your family.

Sincerely,
Stacie Dahlin

Words are just not enough to express how sorry I am for your loss. I have never had to experience what you two have just gone through so I can't even pretend to know how hard it must be. Please know that you have been and will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers as you struggle to get through your pain.
Karen

I am so sorry for you loss. Kyle's struggle for life has been deeply moving over these few short weeks. Thank you for letting me share in the fight, with your courageous detailing of his treatments. Know that he was loved by so many because of his website. I will keep you guys in my prayers.
Peace be with you.
Mike Johnson

We are so sorry for your loss - know you are in our thoughts and prayers today as you make Kyle's arrangements!
I truly believe God picks his brightest flowers first! Call us if you need anything. Love -
Joel and Jill

The Lord giveth and the Lord taketh away. And believing in his mercy taketh away the sorrow. [Maybe[ You have my deepest sympathy. And Kyle is in a place where there is no pain and everything is beautiful.Hugs and Kiss to you All.
Love,
Mrs. Bris

My heart is aching for your family. I am so sad to hear that Kyle didn't make it. May God bless you and your family
Jeffery Morrell

I'm so sorry. I cannot imagine the enormous pain and
grief you must be feeling. I will continue to keep
you in prayer.
Love,
Aunt Dee

I am so sorry to hear such bad news. My prayers will continue to be with you and your family as they always have been. If you need anything at all just let me know -- even if it is just somebody to cry with. I will try giving you a call either tomorrow or Saturday to check in and make sure I can give you whatever type of support that you need. My family sends their love and their prayers out to you and your family.
My deepest regards,
Julie L. Bruggeman

You don't know me but I am a member of Fertile Thoughts. I was reading
through all the new posts today and came across a post from crittr72 and I
just wanted to pass on my deepest sympathy to you and you family on the loss
of your darling son.I am so so so sorry that you all have to experience this sad time and I just
wanted you to know that my thoughts and prayers are coming across the sea to
you from Ireland.

My deepest sympathies goes out to you both. May it comfort you to know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Sincerely,
Marie Mercier

I just wanted to extend my deepest sympathies on the loss of your BEAUTIFUL baby boy.

You probably already know this, but Kyle's life, although short, touched so many people. I had friends and co-workers who, although did not know you personally, prayed daily and read your website often to see any updates. They smiled at his beautiful face, and cried tears for you. It is so hard to comprehend why a life was cut so short. But, as a friend said to me today, if anything, Kyle's life taught us all to look at our own children and treasure them more and appreciate them all the more.

I want you to know that although on this earth, Kyle was afflicted with a "broken heart", his heart brought so many other hearts together and for that reason, I think it's safe to say he had one of the strongest hearts one could know. And until the day you see him again, you will have a beautiful angel to watch over you. And I'm sure that with the laughter in your daughter, or the wind brushing over your shoulder or the sweet smell of a flower as the breeze blows by, you will catch glimpses of him daily to remind you of the lasting presence he will leave.

My thoughts, love and prayers are with you during this difficult time. I'm so sorry.

Love,

Michelle (During)

Tami and I have been keeping informed by Bobby these last couple of weeks, and we just want you to know how sorry we are. I know you have your whole family around you, but if there's anything you need, don't hesitate to let us know.
Jim & Tami

I was so sorry to hear about your beautiful Kyle. You have all been in my thoughts
and prayers these past weeks. I have wanted to call but knew that you were both
prob. emotionally drained everyday........but please know that I was always thinking
of you and hoping things were going okay. I just learned of your website today so
have gotten caught up......I just wish it were better news.

Anyway, my deepest sympathies to you and my prayers are with you all.

Sincerely,
DiAnn Stearns

OUR HEARTS ARE HEAVY AT RECEIVING THE NEWS ABOUT THE LOSS OF YOUR SON KYLE JAMES.

JUST WANT YOU ALL KNOW THAT WE ARE PRAYING THAT THE LORD JESUS WILL HELP YOU THROUGH THIS.

IF YOU DO NOT MIND SUNDAY I AM ASKING THE CHURCH WHERE WE GO TO REMEMBER YOU ALL IN PRAYER DURING THIS TIME OF YOUR BROKEN HEARTS.

GOD SENT YOU HIS SPECIAL ANGEL KYLE JAMES THAT HE MADE AND HE KNEW THAT YOU WOULD BE THE BEST FOR HIM. JUST LOOK AT HOW MANY LIVES THAT HE TOUCH THE SHORT TIME HE LIVED ON EARTH.

NOW HE IS IN HEAVEN WITH JESUS THE HEAVENLY FATHER.

IN HONOR OF KYLE: THERE IS A SUNDAY SCHOOL SONG THAT CHILDREN SING.

JESUS LOVES ME THIS I KNOW FOR THE BIBLE TELLS ME SO LITTLE ONES TO HIM BELONG THEY ARE WEAK BUT HE IS STRONG. YES JESUS LOVES ME YES JESUS LOVES ME YES JESUS LOVES ME THE BIBLE TELLS ME SO.

YOUR SON KYLE IS NOW IN HEAVEN WITH JESUS HE IS BEING HELD TIGHT IN HIS ARMS. NEVER FORGET!

YOU CAN COUNT ON US FOR PRAYING FOR YOU ALL. HEALING TAKES TIME & IT WILL BE IN GOD'S TIME. READ YOUR BIBLE & PRAY. BY DOING THIS YOU CAN READ WHAT GOD SAYS & YOU TALKING TO GOD & RELEASES STRESS. YES, EMOTIONS WILL BE EVERYWHERE. GOD UNDERSTANDS!!

LOVE YOU ALL VERY MUCH!!!
JANICE

I did not get to the e-mail whre you put Jim's web page and I just read that Kyle did not make it. Oh, I am so sorry. I havn't talked to any of the family and I feel devastated for all of you. I know what Jim and Rachel are going through, but they went through such a sad experience with the operations on such a small baby so precious. There are no words to express my sincere sorrowl.fMay God Bless all of you.
Aunt Faye

I am so sorry to learn of Kyle's death. Your sharing of your thoughts and feelings on the web page was very touching and moving. We cannot fathom why this should happen to an innocent child. You will continue to be in our prayers for God's peace and presence to give you strength and guidance in the days and months ahead. We continue to trust that God has a place for all of you and especially Kyle in his heart. God's is the one heart that never gives up and receives all his children into its gracious and loving care. That peace of God be with you in all your grief.
Pastor Koch, and all the members at Good Shepherd

My heartfelt prayers are with you as you lay your precious son to rest. Please know that so many people love and care about you all and want to help you through this time of sorrow. God's grace be with you.
Much Love and Prayers,
Sandy Townley

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